by Rebekah Beneteau | Nov 16, 2016 | Body Image, News, Relationships
No one told me how to be a Man In this use of the word, Man, I’m not talking about simply growing up and adulting, though that is part of it. In this case, I’m talking about what it means to be a Man in this world, as opposed to what society told me I...
by Rebekah Beneteau | Nov 7, 2016 | Body Image, News, Sexual Health, Sexuality
We made this video last week for our Youtube channel PleasureEvolutionTV, to share some thoughts on how to have a great sex-life whether you have a partner or not. We’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments. How do you maintain your erotic connection to...
by Rebekah Beneteau | Oct 31, 2016 | News, Polyamory, Relationships
Letting Go I bet you were thinking, “this is going to be a post about letting go of a past lover.” It’s not. It’s my ruminations about what happens as relationships evolve. When we meet someone, we fall in love with who they are and how we feel...
by Rebekah Beneteau | Oct 26, 2016 | Body Image, News
Wall Flower We all know what a wall flower is right? Wikipedia, that great repository of knowledge, describes it: “A wallflower is someone with an introverted personality type, but who still seeks out and partakes in social events on a fairly regular basis. They...
by Rebekah Beneteau | Oct 19, 2016 | News, Relationships, Sexual Health
HELP! My Wife Refuses to Have Sex. Here is a letter that I received from a prospective client. Dear Rebekah: I am 60 and my wife is 48. The problem is, she no longer wants to have sex. We have a great relationship in so many ways, we enjoy each others’ company...
by Rebekah Beneteau | Oct 13, 2016 | Body Image, News, Sexual Health
When Anxiety was Running Me So I was in the tub this morning, and my brain was going a million miles an hour. Do you know that feeling? The one where you are having conversations with people who aren’t there, trying desperately to figure out how a situation is...
by Rebekah Beneteau | Oct 3, 2016 | News, Polyamory
Can you envision a wonderful vacation retreat in the bliss of a Costa Rican villa with your beloved? Then join us and step out of your everyday workaday mindset with us March 4 – 10, 2017 for the Partners in Paradise Retreat! This 6-day retreat will bring more...
by Rebekah Beneteau | Sep 22, 2016 | Body Image, News, Sexual Health, Sexuality
Equal Value Pleasure Evolution is proud to facilitate many events. Â These range from communication workshops, classes in meditation or alternative lifestyles, to fully sex permissive events. Â Our events can be anywhere from free to upwards of hundreds of dollars. Â One...
by Rebekah Beneteau | Sep 6, 2016 | Body Image, News, Sexual Health
When I was a kid I was always told, “You have such Potential.” It was usually said by an authority figure telling me I wasn’t living up to expectations, that I had a potential I wasn’t realizing.  These words fell on a deaf child’s ears....
by Rebekah Beneteau | Aug 23, 2016 | News, Polyamory, Relationships
He Said: I don’t know about other men, but one of the phrases I hated to hear my girlfriend say was, “We need to Talk.” You could hear the capital T in the word and you knew this wasn’t going to be a fun conversation about the latest television...