by Rebekah Beneteau | May 12, 2019 | Anger, Relationships
It’s not always flowers and candy My inbox and Facebook feed today was full of people celebrating their mothers. Which makes me hyper aware that this is another one of those Hallmark created holidays that leaves many folks sad and depressed. Several of my...
by Rebekah Beneteau | Jan 17, 2019 | Relationships
Dating is No Fun That’s right, I said it. For most people, me included, dating feels like a gauntlet you run to get into a relationship. They are like job interviews, with sex at the end. Which is still part of the interview, because if he has great...
by Rebekah Beneteau | Sep 15, 2018 | BDSM, Relationships
Sadism and Masochism – Fun or Flaws? A lot of people ask me if it is wrong that they’re turned on by masochism (experiencing pain and other sensation?” Or the flip side, they ask, “Why do I like giving pain and being a sadist?” The answer...
by Rebekah Beneteau | Jul 4, 2018 | Relationships
Instruct Your Lover So They Can Hear It Clients frequently complain about some aspect of how their partner makes love. They don’t like how he kisses, or how she performs oral sex. And they claim that they have been telling them how to do it “right”...
by Rebekah Beneteau | Jun 5, 2018 | Relationships
Stopping and Starting in Love and Relationship It’s been weeks since I made my last episode of the Rebekah Beneteau Show. I don’t know why I stopped. But the longer it went , the harder it seemed to start again. And I had a lot of self-judgment going on...
by Rebekah Beneteau | Mar 3, 2018 | Anger, Relationships
What do holding onto resentments and withholding forgiveness have to do with your sex life? Everything! Forgiveness is often hard to feel when a relationship has ended. Or perhaps family trauma from childhood has left us feeling broken. The hurts of the past that we...
