My Mission
I am here on this planet to embody bliss and help others do the same.
My Vision
I see a future where a new paradigm around sex and relationships is possible. Where no one is ashamed of their body or their desire. What can we be to make it a reality?
My Work
I empower individuals to release shame, find their erotic authenticity and share that with partners. I coach on body positivity, kink, tantra, ethical non-monogamy and overcoming sexual abuse and/or trauma. I can energetically reverse premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction. I work with couples to help them find commonality where there is libido imbalance and sexual distance. I can help you rekindle the sparks in a long-term relationship, or start a new relationship off with honesty about your needs and wants.
How I got here
I grew up in New York City in the sixties and seventies. It was the era of sex, drugs and rock & roll, and the birth of Women’s Lib. By all accounts, I was a beautiful outgoing child. In every home movie, I’m singing and dancing. I played softball, and I took ballet. I was smart. (I still am!)
When I was 8 years old, and adult man did sexual things to me. My pictures and movies after that are not so joyful. After many years of working on myself, I know now that a part of me went underground on that summer day. I believed it wasn’t safe to be visible, much less attractive. I started thinking that my only value in the world was as a sex object. By my teen years, sex became the coin of the realm, and I traded it to buy love, attention and safety. Sex was something to be good at for other people, not something to enjoy myself.
I wasn’t happy. I drank too much. I went to the University of Pennsylvania, and got a BA in English and Creative Writing, but mostly I majored in Bloomers, an all-female comedy troupe and procrastinating homework assignments.
Fast forward to my thirties. I have given up drinking and drugs. I am now in training at a four-year school for energy healers, the Barbara Brennan School. An awakening came one night, as my first husband was enthusiastically going at it on top of me, and I was lying there numb. Sex was not fun, and I was checked out mentally and emotionally during it. Where had the joy gone? I committed to making my pleasure and sex life my number one priority. I discovered Lafayette Morehouse and their research into expanding sexual potential through female orgasm. These are the folks that invented the One Hour Orgasm! In 2013, I trained as a Sacred Intimate under tantra teachers affiliated with Shalom Mountain and Rudy Ballantine. In 2014, I received Fem Domme training from Midori. And all this time, I continued to work on myself, and the obstacles and implants that I had to experiencing self-love, the love of another, and GREAT SEX.
I am an ordained non-denominational minister by The Sanctuary of The Beloved church, Sacred Order of Melchidezek. Yep, I can marry, bury, and bless! Other mentors and inspiration along the way have included A Course in Miracles, Esther Hicks/Abraham, Mantak Chia, Betty Martin, EFT, Byron Katie, Access Consciousness and other teachers of spiritual and sexual techniques and ideology.
For many years, I had a practice as an energy healer, working on people with physical and mental illness. One day, a client had an orgasm on the table. I heard in my mind “Sexual Arousal is the body’s joy at feeling itself.” I became aware that all healing comes from accessing your life force. And life force is sourced by sexuality. So I became a Sex Coach, devoted to helping people express their Authentic Sexuality.
The Results
I have taken the journey i am inviting you into. As I have given myself permission to embrace and embody my Sexual Authenticity, I have had these results:
- I love my body exactly as it is
- I am free from shame and inhibition
- The opinions and judgments of other’s no longer enslave me
- I know what turns me on, and
- I can ask for what I desire from a partner
- I have had wonderful relationships with men and women
- I walk away from situations and people that no longer serve me
- I have trained myself to have better orgasms, and from a greater variety of things than I would have thought possible.
- I have learned how to Say Yes to Pleasure and make that my standard for life.
- I have learned how to talk to men in a way that they can hear.
I am an English speaking Sex and Relationship Coach, and Sacred Intimate based in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico. You can have in-person sessions with me here, or via phone or webcam anywhere in the world. I am also available for VIP Intensives in your city or mine.
The Credentials:
Hands of Light Healer, Graduate of The Barbara Brennan School of Healing
Access Bars® Facilitator offering sessions and classes
Access Facelift® Practitioner
Access Body Process® Practitioner
