Transmisogyny Part II: Battling Gender Biases

Transmisogyny Part II: Battling Gender Biases

The Androgyny Within It was a humid Spring evening in my college dorm, and I was beautifully, spectacularly high. My boyfriend and I had gotten blazed and were lounging in my bed listening to music and talking to each other in fits and delirious starts. Then, although...
What is Transmisogyny?

What is Transmisogyny?

As promised in my introductory post, this week’s topic is a little more sociological, a little more treacherous, and, in my opinion, a lot more important to understand. Transmisogyny When I was maybe twenty years old, perusing my favorite off-color Manhattan bookshop,...

In Bed with Leon Feingold

No One Can Be Our Everything Last week on “In Bed with Rebekah” Polyamory spokesperson Leon Feingold came on to share his wisdom on non-monogamy, MENSA, and escalators. Leon has appeared in a number of talk shows and articles, as well as a 2015 TED Talk, singing the...
Finding Your Voice: Femme Style

Finding Your Voice: Femme Style

Finding our Freedom to Choose “I’ve knocked on a lot of doors in life and heard ‘no’. Now I want to go searching for my ‘yes’.” During last night’s biweekly Being Social, I heard this statement tossed out offhandedly, and it resonated through me like a gong....

In Bed with Julia Sotas

Conversations on Life, Love, Sex, and Consciousness This past week in Pleasure Evolution’s “In Bed With Rebekah” Rebekah invited the lovely Julia Sotas to chat about her experience as a Facilitator of Access Consciousness, an amazing organization...
Kindness is a Choice

Kindness is a Choice

I mean… the title really says it all, doesn’t it? Yeah? Okay, I guess my work here is done. Elaborating on Being Kind to Self and Others This year has been… a shitshow. A real blowout bad-trip psychedelic circus. So many people I know, and even more that I don’t...
Bisexual Erasure

Bisexual Erasure

Straight Relationship? Just a few weeks ago, somebody told me I was in a straight relationship. I was discussing my expertise in queer issues with a professor in the market for a teaching assistant. By this point in the conversation, I’d mentioned my own queerness and...
Introducing – Ginger Z

Introducing – Ginger Z

The Journey Begins Hello! It is my absolute pleasure (pun intended) to introduce myself as the newest member of the Pleasure Evolution team. My name is Ginger, and I’m incredibly excited to talk, write, and vibe with you all about kink, intimacy, and sexuality....