by Rebekah Beneteau | Feb 13, 2014 | News, Relationships
Welcome back to the series on being a better lover. I started with the principles of loving, and then moved on to the skills, and hopefully, you’re reading these in order, because they build upon one another. And of course, the skills are the principles put into...
by Rebekah Beneteau | Feb 12, 2014 | News, Relationships
Those of you who read this blog regularly know that I am committed to personal transparency. I think failure to practice today’s skill – Honoring Feelings and Ideas, I recognize your right to feel and think as you do, led to the demise of my second marriage. I...
by Rebekah Beneteau | Feb 11, 2014 | News, Relationships
It’s amazing how much I am learning as I progress through this study of Love is an Intention: An Interview with Jerry Judd about the Principles and Skills of Loving (published by Friends of Shalom Mountain). I keep finding ways that I can up my game as a Lover. This...
by Rebekah Beneteau | Feb 10, 2014 | News
If you are reading this post to learn some new position from the kama sutra, you are in the wrong place, at least today. The Lover I’m talking about, now, is the heart opened, longing for deep intimacy lover. And the skills I am going to write about work with...
by Rebekah Beneteau | Feb 9, 2014 | News
This final principle of love, is usually the most controversial. It states, “Love is a response to need.” In this culture, we associate need with weakness and we don’t want to appear that way, because it will turn-off prospective partners. I used to be terribly...
by Rebekah Beneteau | Feb 8, 2014 | News
There are a million love songs. From Donna Summers I Feel Love to The Lion King’s Can you Feel the Love Tonight they all remind us that when love is present, it is palpable. So I’m willing to agree that love is a feeling, the problem is, love felt, but...
