Being a Man
No one told me how to be a Man In this use of the word, Man, I'm not talking about simply growing up and adulting, though that is part of it. In this case, I'm talking about what it means to be a Man in this world, as opposed to what society told me I shouldn't be. I...
Your Pleasure is Our Pleasure
We made this video last week for our Youtube channel PleasureEvolutionTV, to share some thoughts on how to have a great sex-life whether you have a partner or not. We'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments. How do you maintain your erotic connection to your...
When You’re Still in Love with That Guy (or Gal)
Letting Go I bet you were thinking, "this is going to be a post about letting go of a past lover." It's not. It's my ruminations about what happens as relationships evolve. When we meet someone, we fall in love with who they are and how we feel when we are with them....
Get off the Wall
Wall Flower We all know what a wall flower is right? Wikipedia, that great repository of knowledge, describes it: "A wallflower is someone with an introverted personality type, but who still seeks out and partakes in social events on a fairly regular basis. They are...
HELP! My Wife Refuses to Have Sex.
HELP! My Wife Refuses to Have Sex. Here is a letter that I received from a prospective client. Dear Rebekah: I am 60 and my wife is 48. The problem is, she no longer wants to have sex. We have a great relationship in so many ways, we enjoy each others' company and we...
Life Hacks for Anxiety
When Anxiety was Running Me So I was in the tub this morning, and my brain was going a million miles an hour. Do you know that feeling? The one where you are having conversations with people who aren't there, trying desperately to figure out how a situation is going...
Come to Costa Rica & Take Paradise Home With You!
Can you envision a wonderful vacation retreat in the bliss of a Costa Rican villa with your beloved? Then join us and step out of your everyday workaday mindset with us March 4 - 10, 2017 for the Partners in Paradise Retreat! This 6-day retreat will bring more...
Women Aren’t Bait
Equal Value Pleasure Evolution is proud to facilitate many events. Â These range from communication workshops, classes in meditation or alternative lifestyles, to fully sex permissive events. Â Our events can be anywhere from free to upwards of hundreds of dollars. Â One...
Pleasure Potential
When I was a kid I was always told, "You have such Potential." It was usually said by an authority figure telling me I wasn't living up to expectations, that I had a potential I wasn't realizing.  These words fell on a deaf child's ears.  I didn't understand what they...
Honey, we need to TALK – The Relationship Maintenance Conversation
He Said: I don't know about other men, but one of the phrases I hated to hear my girlfriend say was, "We need to Talk." You could hear the capital T in the word and you knew this wasn't going to be a fun conversation about the latest television show or what's...