Fall Energy Running Rampant
If you are experiencing this Fall heat cycle as particularly challenging, it’s time to channel the energy into things that excite and nurture you.
Dare to be Bare
What’s the most daring thing you’ve done lately? And if you can’t name anything. What are you going to do next?
Erotica (NSW) – Read at Your Own Risk
It's hump day Wednesday, and I thought I'd share a little erotic fiction to spice up your week. Submit to the Queen by WiseWild I was standing around the dungeon talking to friends, when he noticed the riding crop stuck in my hand. "That looks harmless," he quipped....
The Question to Start Your Day
I used to wake up every morning and the first thought I had was, "what do I have to do today?" Before I had even gotten out of bed, I would go through my list of tasks , both personal and professional. As I went to bed, I would decide the value of my day by how many...
The Body Never Lies
Are you a natural-born people pleaser? I am. I just realized that I was traumatized by the birth of my sister when I was three years old. suddenly, I was no longer the center of attention. Not only did this usurper come along, but we moved to a new apartment which...
Can this Marriage be Saved?
Yesterday, I had really fun lunch with my friends, psychologists Ted Riskin, and Marcia Gleason. I had never met Marcia, who is the founder of The Exceptional Marriage, however she and her husband were on my radio show last year. We were talking about the importance...
Our Wound is Our Gift
I’ve been writing lately about why I am a sex coach and educator. I knew that it came from seeing how my past journey could help others. What I didn’t know was that it was my destiny. I recently learned of Chiron, and what it means in your astrological profile....
In praise of women over forty
This lovely tribute to women over forty has been circulating the internet for years, incorrectly attributed to Andy Rooney. It was actually written by Frank Kaiser, the founder of a humor and blog website called Suddenly Senior. You have to love a website that allows...
What men want & why they don’t get it
I meet a lot of men at networking events. Many of them hear what I do and say, "Gosh I wish my wife would work with you. She just doesn't seem to enjoy our sex life. " When I ask them to tell me more, they say, she doesn't believe me when I tell her how sexy and...
50 Shades and the Rest of Us
One night at a party, someone I had just met made a comment I hear a lot. Inevitably, when people hear I am a sex and pleasure coach, they say something like “Oh, you must love Fifty Shades of Grey.” Well, no actually, I think it’s poorly written and a gross...