Poly or Mono?
People ask us whether we push the "poly agenda" or the "mono agenda" The answer is neither. We firmly believe that your relationship should be a conscious series of decisions rather than defaulting to the majority. People are very individualistic and we think that...
Before You Give Up on Your Marriage – Try This
Saving Your Marriage 101 I love the Gottman Institute. Dr.'s John and Julie Gottman have made a lifetime study of marriage, and developed an approach that supports and repairs troubled relationships and strengthens happy ones. Their blog is always informative. In a...
Rekindle the Romance for Couples
Sparks into Flames Whether you've been together for a year or a decade, childhood sweethearts or strangers that got caught up in a whirlwind romance, this video is for you! Don't wait until you've argued over the toothpaste for the 500th time, or whose turn it...
We all Change
Time is like a river, and so are we The idea that we cannot step into the same river, because the water that was there moments ago has flowed onward, is an idea put forth by the Greek Philosopher Heraclitus sometime in 4th century BCE.  I've looked to the ancient...
Being a Man
No one told me how to be a Man In this use of the word, Man, I'm not talking about simply growing up and adulting, though that is part of it. In this case, I'm talking about what it means to be a Man in this world, as opposed to what society told me I shouldn't be. I...
When You’re Still in Love with That Guy (or Gal)
Letting Go I bet you were thinking, "this is going to be a post about letting go of a past lover." It's not. It's my ruminations about what happens as relationships evolve. When we meet someone, we fall in love with who they are and how we feel when we are with them....
Life Hacks for Anxiety
When Anxiety was Running Me So I was in the tub this morning, and my brain was going a million miles an hour. Do you know that feeling? The one where you are having conversations with people who aren't there, trying desperately to figure out how a situation is going...
Pleasure Potential
When I was a kid I was always told, "You have such Potential." It was usually said by an authority figure telling me I wasn't living up to expectations, that I had a potential I wasn't realizing.  These words fell on a deaf child's ears.  I didn't understand what they...
Honey, we need to TALK – The Relationship Maintenance Conversation
He Said: I don't know about other men, but one of the phrases I hated to hear my girlfriend say was, "We need to Talk." You could hear the capital T in the word and you knew this wasn't going to be a fun conversation about the latest television show or what's...
The Truth About Arousal
Where Does Arousal Come From? You probably think arousal comes from between your legs. Well partially. In this video we tell you some secrets about where turn-on starts and how to have more of it. Videos now available Did you know we now have our very own...