When Pain is Pleasure – the Rebekah Beneteau Show
Sadism and Masochism - Fun or Flaws? A lot of people ask me if it is wrong that they're turned on by masochism (experiencing pain and other sensation?" Or the flip side, they ask, "Why do I like giving pain and being a sadist?" The answer is, no one knows...
Instruct Your Lover
Instruct Your Lover So They Can Hear It Clients frequently complain about some aspect of how their partner makes love. They don't like how he kisses, or how she performs oral sex. And they claim that they have been telling them how to do it "right" and their partners...
What does sex have to do with consciousness?
Pole Dancing for Consciousness? Yep. That's the creation of my latest guest on the Rebekah Beneteau Show. Patty Alfonso is an internationally acclaimed speaker and facilitator on the topics of consciousness, bodies and creating a life that inspires global...
Getting back on the horse, in love and sex
Stopping and Starting in Love and Relationship It's been weeks since I made my last episode of the Rebekah Beneteau Show. I don't know why I stopped. But the longer it went , the harder it seemed to start again. And I had a lot of self-judgment going on...
What is Tantric Adoration?
What is Tantric Massage and Adoration? In episode 10 of The Rebekah Beneteau Show, Tantric Educator Max Aaron Christeaan and I sat down for a chat. We're talking all about tantric massage, and how you can use it to increase the sensual connection between...
Resentment, Forgiveness and Moving On
What do holding onto resentments and withholding forgiveness have to do with your sex life? Everything! Forgiveness is often hard to feel when a relationship has ended. Or perhaps family trauma from childhood has left us feeling broken. The hurts of the...
Cultivating Self-Love for Better Relationships
Your Body Image Dictates Your Love Life Yep, it's true. Other people can only love us as much as we love ourselves. And the judgments you have about yourself keep others at bay. In fact, even if they tell you all day long how attractive you are, chances are you won't...
How do I tell my partner I don’t like how she gives a blow job?
Sexual Communication Have you ever been with a new partner, and you just don't like how they do "it"? and it could be oral sex, kissing, manual stimulation, even a shoulder massage! Then comes that moment where you either suffer in silence, or tell them...
Curious about Pegging?
Are you or your partner interested in anal penetration for men? Commonly called pegging, this practice can add loads of pleasure to your sexual repertoire. Join me as I talk to Sex Educator and Blogger, Pegging Guru and Erotica Author, Ruby Ryder in the...
How to find a partner that’s right for you
Have you ever wondered what happens during a coaching session with me? Here is your chance to watch as Ruth and I discuss how she can navigate dating as a polyamorous woman. We all have that thing that we wonder when we should reveal it during the dating process,...