Kindness is a Choice
I mean… the title really says it all, doesn’t it? Yeah? Okay, I guess my work here is done. Elaborating on Being Kind to Self and Others This year has been… a shitshow. A real blowout bad-trip psychedelic circus. So many people I know, and even more that I don't know,...
10 Tips for Sparking up Sex in Your Relationship
Is familiarity breeding contempt? Now that the flush (and hormone release) of new love is gone, does your sex life seem flat? Here are ten ways to bring new life to an old love. Be Deliberate and Invest This one is the...
Mother’s Day – It’s Complicated
It's not always flowers and candy My inbox and Facebook feed today was full of people celebrating their mothers. Which makes me hyper aware that this is another one of those Hallmark created holidays that leaves many folks sad and depressed. Several of my friends have...
How to Not Date for Fun and Romance
Dating is No Fun That's right, I said it. For most people, me included, dating feels like a gauntlet you run to get into a relationship. They are like job interviews, with sex at the end. Which is still part of the interview, because if he has great conversational...
Instruct Your Lover
Instruct Your Lover So They Can Hear It Clients frequently complain about some aspect of how their partner makes love. They don't like how he kisses, or how she performs oral sex. And they claim that they have been telling them how to do it "right" and their partners...
What does sex have to do with consciousness?
Pole Dancing for Consciousness? Yep. That's the creation of my latest guest on the Rebekah Beneteau Show. Patty Alfonso is an internationally acclaimed speaker and facilitator on the topics of consciousness, bodies and creating a life that inspires global...
Getting back on the horse, in love and sex
Stopping and Starting in Love and Relationship It's been weeks since I made my last episode of the Rebekah Beneteau Show. I don't know why I stopped. But the longer it went , the harder it seemed to start again. And I had a lot of self-judgment going on...
What is Tantric Adoration?
What is Tantric Massage and Adoration? In episode 10 of The Rebekah Beneteau Show, Tantric Educator Max Aaron Christeaan and I sat down for a chat. We're talking all about tantric massage, and how you can use it to increase the sensual connection between...
Resentment, Forgiveness and Moving On
What do holding onto resentments and withholding forgiveness have to do with your sex life? Everything! Forgiveness is often hard to feel when a relationship has ended. Or perhaps family trauma from childhood has left us feeling broken. The hurts of the...
How to find a partner that’s right for you
Have you ever wondered what happens during a coaching session with me? Here is your chance to watch as Ruth and I discuss how she can navigate dating as a polyamorous woman. We all have that thing that we wonder when we should reveal it during the dating process,...