What Is Subspace?
I’ve gotten this question from people with plenty of kink experience almost as much as from those with none. Identifying and describing subspace is a difficult, nuanced affair. It does not look or feel the same for everyone, and many claim they've never reached this...
Sexual Intimacy and the Pandemic
Why Sex is Good in Times of Stress I got the chance to sit down this week with Gayle Guyardo of WFLA News' Bloom TV, an hour long syndicated Health and Wellness show. Orgasm, including the self-induced kind, releasing a hormone cocktail designed to make you feel...
Is it Hot in Here or is it Just You?
I know, cheesy pick up line. And a twist on the frequent joke about menopausal women. Two women who are hotties in the realm of creation have created a podcast called Hot Flashes, Cool Topics. I was privileged to join Bridgett and Colleen on their show for a...
What is Access Bars® and Is that Rebekah in the News?
How I found Access Bars® It was two years ago that I was stuck in a grieving loop over the end of a relationship when my friend Michael Young offered to "run Bars" on me. I had already been a trained energy healer for many years. I knew the power of changing the way...
Polyamory Is Messy
Messy is Okay by Ginger (with Rebekah whispering in!) I’ve seen a handful of romantic triads and non-monogamists represented in books, movies, fan fiction, and tv shows, and they always seem to present in one of two ways: everything comes together perfectly, or...
In Bed with Rebekah
This week on In Bed with Rebekah, we interviewed... Rebekah! This Sunday, in honor of the fresh Femme Domme series starting up this Thursday, we did a special In Bed With- episode where I interviewed Rebekah about how she became a Domme, from the comfort of our own...
In Bed with Ginger Z
Discovering BDSM This week on In Bed with Rebekah, I - the notorious Ginger Z - joined the conversation from my bedroom in Brooklyn. For the better part of an hour, Rebekah and I discussed trans representation in media, kink-shame, and the various delights and...
In Bed with Helen Hillix
The Polarity of Porn This week on In Bed with Rebekah, Helen Hillix came on to discuss her views on pornography. Helen talks about the ways that porn polarizes individuals, couples, and our society, by vacillating us back and forth between lust and shame. As a Sacred...
Kink in Media
Hello y'all, and happy Fall! Last week, we watched a kinky love story during Sex Positive Cinema, the Pleasure Evolution monthly movie night. This inspired me to talk about the way two of my favorite things in the world intersect: BDSM and Fiction Media. The Bare...
Transmisogyny Part II: Battling Gender Biases
The Androgyny Within It was a humid Spring evening in my college dorm, and I was beautifully, spectacularly high. My boyfriend and I had gotten blazed and were lounging in my bed listening to music and talking to each other in fits and delirious starts. Then, although...