The Secret to Pleasure – Be Here Now

The dog woke me up a half hour early this morning. We’ve taught her to ring a jingle bell on the door when she needs to go out.  Adorable, but not at 6:30 am.  I might have just rolled over and gone back to sleep, but she had her last walk sort of early last night, so...

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Showing up Empowered

Not so long ago, a man invited me to meet him for coffee.  Thinking it was an opportunity to network for my business, I accepted. When we met, it was clear I was expected to pay for my own coffee.  No problem if this is a business meeting, but it soon became obvious...

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How may I serve you?

I worked as a waitress for MANY years throughout my life. I really enjoyed it. There was a constant flow of interesting new people to meet every day. I would walk up to the table, introduce myself, and promise to take really good care of them. I would educate them...

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Your Unique Plumage

My fortune cookie today said “The wise crow paints his feather black.”  I pondered this for a while.  What I came up with is this, that it is wisdom to portray yourself as who you actually are.  What do you think?  In my younger years, I spent a lot of time making...

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Wishing you a sweet new year

It is said that during the time from Rosh Hashanah to Yom Kippur (the Day of Atonement) the gates of Heaven are open, and G-d can better hear our prayers. I wish you all a happy, healthy and sweet New Year. May you be inscribed in the Book of Life for Good. And here’s...

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Dr. Steve Bodansky on this week’s Radio Show

I’m super excited, tumesced even, to report that Dr. Steve Bodansky is my guest this week on The Ask Me Anything Love and Sex show.  Having received his Phd. from Morehouse University, Steve went on to become a sensuality educator who has taught many how to have more...

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Embracing Change

Neale Donald Walsch wrote a book called When Everything Changes, Change Everything. As I sit here in my new apartment in Asheville, NC I am embracing that idea in a way I couldn’t when I first read the book.  I used to be one who dreaded change.  Twenty years ago,...

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Life is Like Ikea

You know how in Ikea, once you walk in, you have to navigate the whole maze of the store to get to the exit?  Sometimes you can take a shortcut from textiles to checkout, but mostly, you have to walk all the way through.  Emotions are like that. When you are in one,...

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Surfing or Wiping Out?

Agreement is control.  Repeat after me, because this is one of the most important techniques for having a pleasurable life. It's also one of the hardest to remember and practice, when life or your partner has delivered something you weren't expecting. Agreement is...

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