by Rebekah Beneteau | Jan 4, 2017 | News, Relationships, Sexuality
Sparks into Flames Whether you’ve been together for a year or a decade, childhood sweethearts or strangers that got caught up in a whirlwind romance, this video is for you! Don’t wait until you’ve argued over the toothpaste for the 500th time,...
by Rebekah Beneteau | Dec 12, 2016 | News, Relationships, Sexual Health
Time is like a river, and so are we The idea that we cannot step into the same river, because the water that was there moments ago has flowed onward, is an idea put forth by the Greek Philosopher Heraclitus sometime in 4th century BCE.  I’ve looked to the...
by Rebekah Beneteau | Nov 16, 2016 | Body Image, News, Relationships
No one told me how to be a Man In this use of the word, Man, I’m not talking about simply growing up and adulting, though that is part of it. In this case, I’m talking about what it means to be a Man in this world, as opposed to what society told me I...
by Rebekah Beneteau | Oct 31, 2016 | News, Polyamory, Relationships
Letting Go I bet you were thinking, “this is going to be a post about letting go of a past lover.” It’s not. It’s my ruminations about what happens as relationships evolve. When we meet someone, we fall in love with who they are and how we feel...
by Rebekah Beneteau | Aug 23, 2016 | News, Polyamory, Relationships
He Said: I don’t know about other men, but one of the phrases I hated to hear my girlfriend say was, “We need to Talk.” You could hear the capital T in the word and you knew this wasn’t going to be a fun conversation about the latest television...
by Rebekah Beneteau | Jun 30, 2016 | Body Image, News, Relationships
Talking and Relating to Men Oh, those Men. Our partners try to understand us, as we grapple to understand ourselves. Even when we think we have it all handled, someone comes along  and finds there are motivations deeper than we thought. In my 43 years of studying...