Pleasure Potential

by | Sep 6, 2016 | Body Image, News, Sexual Health

When I was a kid I was always told, “You have such Potential.” It was usually said by an authority figure telling me I wasn’t living up to expectations, that I had a potential I wasn’t realizing.  These words fell on a deaf child’s ears....

Head, Heart and Hard-on

by | Jun 30, 2016 | Body Image, News, Relationships

Talking and Relating to Men Oh, those Men. Our partners try to understand us, as we grapple to understand ourselves. Even when we think we have it all handled, someone comes along  and finds there are motivations deeper than we thought. In my 43 years of studying...

A Word about Men’s Underwear

by | Jun 29, 2016 | Body Image, News, Sexuality

You Never Get a Second Chance to Make a First Impression! Today’s writing is purely opinionated and I offer a trigger warning, specifically to the very men this post addresses.  In my time with Pleasure Evolution, I’ve had the opportunity to...

Another Full Moon

by | Sep 2, 2015 | Body Image, News, Sexuality

Another full moon, another sleepless night.  Even as a child, I had trouble sleeping on a full moon.  I know it’s a cliché, and many pagan and wiccans will claim a strong connection to the lunar cycle.  I used to lie awake and read books by the light of the full moon....

Man Talk

by | Aug 11, 2015 | Body Image, News, Relationships, Sexuality

Are two people having sex, or is one person f*****g the other? Let me start by saying I grew up in what seemed to be a pretty normal southern American environment, which is to say it was racist, homophobic, unenlightened and violent. Despite my best attempts it...