Sadism and Masochism – Fun or Flaws?

A lot of people ask me if it is wrong that they’re turned on by masochism (experiencing pain and other sensation?” Or the flip side, they ask, “Why do I like giving pain and being a sadist?” The answer is, no one knows why we are aroused by certain things. And in my not so humble opinion, nothing is wrong as long as you and your partners are in agreement.

So how do you give yourself permission to like what you like, ask for what you want, and thoroughly enjoy the sensual life that is available? Because the only difference between pain and pleasure is your point of view!

Watch the video at right to learn more about how to have fun when pain is your (or your partner’s) pleasure.