Recurring Events, One-time Gatherings and Parties

This is the place to view our sex-positive and intimacy building events happening online (an some in-person)

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Being Social – A Gathering of Fun, Love and Transformation

“Being Socials” are a fun way to meet new people, and get to know your friends even better. The invitation is to show up and BE, whoever you are and however you feel, because we set a tone of total acceptance. Like a party, but with structure, the communication games we play give you an opportunity to give and receive attention, and create surprising intimacy. From candid and hilarious, to deep and touching, each Being Social follows the same structure but is created by the people who are there. Come and play with us.

We are now offering these online via zoom, as well as some outdoor gatherings.

Would you like to have us lead a Being Social for your organization, meet-up, family, or friend circle? Write to us for more details.

(Newcomers must arrive on time: doors close at quarter past)

Online – Every two weeks on Friday evenings

October 9th 6:30 – 9 pm EDT
Leader: Rebekah
Cost: $10
Pre-registration and a webcam required

October 23rd 6:30 – 9 pm EDT
Leaders: Rebekah
Cost: $10
Pre-registration and a webcam required

Play Parties

Asheville Area, North Carolina
August 14th 5 to 10 pm

Registration Opening Soon


It’s been a long year and a half when human contact was limited. While things are opening up and we are perhaps going back to “normal”, in reality, the whole world has changed. What did you learn about yourself during the lock down? Didn’t we all realize that tomorrow is not promised, and the time to live full out is now?

  • Who would You love, and how would you love them, if no one told you how it “should be done”?
  • What else is possible beyond what you imagined for your sensual life?
  • Do you wish you knew more like-minded souls to accompany you on your explorations into Sexual Authenticity?
  • Who would you be and how would you play if you gave yourself full permission to have your desires?
  • What would it be like to have infinite choice about how you related to yourself and others?

Join Rebekah and Sex Educator Joseph Fitzgerald for an evening of re-connection and discovery. Who are you now? What do you desire? What are you willing to gift, and receive? This is an opportunity to see and be seen, to touch and be touched. And as always, watching is participation. This is an all gender, all orientation event.

We will be taking your temperature and asking you to sign a rider before arrival acknowledging that all contact risks transmission (there are more viruses than Covid), and taking full responsibility for your presence at this event.

What to Expect

Opening Circle: Connection, Consent and Embodiment

During the opening Circle we will build a container of community. The icebreaker games will help you create connection to yourself and others in ways that may be new to you.

Amp up your own sexual energy and enjoy that flow as you interact with others. Dance in the exchange of eros with conscious community and safe, playful experiential exercises. This is an opportunity to expand your ideas of intimate connection and what counts as SEX.  The most important rule of the evening is “don’t do anything you don’t want to do.” Consent and boundaries are all-important and we will help you find yours. Come feel your body’s joy and your heart’s longings.

After the opening circle games, we open up to Play!

This is a place where all parts of you are welcome: your hunger, your fear, your vulnerability and your power. A place where you are encouraged to give voice to your desires, to be seen and to see others. Magically, a room full of strangers will become a Tribe of explorers.

Playtime is devoted to the Tantric concept “Everything is an Experiment.” What have you always wanted to experience? How much pleasure will you allow yourself? That might look like sharing a sensual experience with your committed partner in a space where other people are also playing. You might explore relating to someone of the same sex, or multiple partners. You might want to be in the energy of the erotic, and stay within your own energy field. No activity is expected or required, and anything safe and consensual is allowed. In fact, to watch is also to participate. There will be dungeon equipment, massage tables, chill space, and erotic and snuggle zones available.

Refreshments will be served, and we appreciate fun contributions for the snack table.

THIS IS A DRUG AND ALCOHOL FREE EVENT. Be here when you’re here.

This is a sex positive, sex permissive event. Come cuddle. Come kiss. Come dance in the flow of Eros and revel in exploring your Authentic Sexuality.


Think about this before you register. Do you take responsibility for yourself and your experiences? Are you somebody who knows your own wants and boundaries and can communicate them clearly…… and/or you’re willing to work and explore these areas for your own growth and enjoyment? Do you treat yourself and others with respect and kindness? Are you open and allowing of how other people express their gender, and sexuality? Are you willing to let go of your expectations and demands and be present to what IS with an open heart?

Be prompt. We will lock the doors to late arrivals in order to set a safe container. Leave whenever you like. Closing circle will take place around 9:30 or 9:40 pm.

Frequently Asked Questions

I would love to come, but do I have to participate?  PLEASE COME and enjoy the pressure-free company of like-minded individuals and leave whenever you feel full. Really. There will be no requirement for you to do anything you don’t want to do. We will go over party etiquette at the start, and watching is a totally acceptable way to play.

What do I wear? Dress code is street clothes to the door.  Once inside you can change into comfort, your sexiest attire, or nothing at all.

Is this a couples thing? Usually, about half the attendees come as a couple. The rest are single individuals of all genders.

What’s the gender balance? We try to keep registration fairly even, although last minute no-shows make it hard to predict. Please read this article for a deeper explanation.

Is same sex relating allowed? Hell yes! We support and encourage you to do what you are excited and/or curious about.

This party is an opportunity to treat all life as an experiment. Since our cardinal rule is Don’t do anything you don’t want to do!  YOU set the stage.  You are invited to dance in the space of eros, where sensuality and sexuality can be freely expressed without judgment. You can play with one or many. We will create a space that is safe, stimulating, conscious, and nurturing, and you are encouraged to explore yourself, your desires, and your limits by yourself and with others. And most of all, to HAVE FUN.

Refund Policy:|
Cancellations at least 48 hours BEFORE the event will be refunded by request, minus a $5 administrative fee. Cancellations within 48 hours of the event will not receive a refund but may be applied to a future event at the discretion of Pleasure Evolution. Late arrivals will be considered canceled tickets sales. No admittance after 5:15 pm without prior approval.

Liability Policy:

Attendees are fully liable for their own actions. Nudity and sexual content are to be expected at this event. Ticket holders agree to not hold responsible Pleasure Evolution, its affiliates or associates for any and all injuries that may occur during activities at this event up to, including but not limited to physical, emotional, mental, spiritual or psychological. By attending this event, ticket holders acknowledge the risks of engaging in sexual and spiritual activities and will conduct themselves accordingly. Any and all behavior that Pleasure Evolution or its affiliates deem unsafe, unsavory or detrimental to the well being of those attending can and will result in immediate expulsion from the event.

Curious about what happens at these sensually adventurous events? Read our blog post HERE 

Kinky Over 50

Interested in hosting this event virtually for your meet-up or group? Contact us.

Part meet and greet, part workshop, this evening is for kinksters over 50 and the people who love them. Through structured ice breaker games and discussion we will explore the joys and trials of being the age we are in the alternative lifestyle community.

  • How do you meet people whose appetites match yours?
  • When do you tell people you just met through online dating what your kink is?
  • What baggage are you carrying about your age that if you let go of it would help you enjoy your love and sex life more?

Whether you are a seasoned player looking for new friends or a newbie exploring, join us for fun and fellowship. There will be light refreshments and non-alcoholic beverages served, and time for informal socializing.

Facilitated by Rebekah Beneteau

Refund Policy
Refunds available if requested 24 hours before the event

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