Freaky in the Sheets – Zoom Webinar
Friday, September 20th 7 – 8 pm

Are you depressed, repressed, lonely, horny, angry or any combination of the above?

Could it be because you are playing small and dumbing down your actual sexual desires?

Are you letting the judgments of others limit what is possible for you in your sensual and sexual life?

Are you ready to CUT THAT SHIT OUT?

Join me for a juicy zoom webinar to get real about embracing ALL of you in the bedroom. Unless of course your thing is sex out in the open. Yes, I’m talking about All the things you think are abnormal (but really aren’t).

What would it take for us all to love being Dirty Little Freaks? Cue the Pink song!

Facilitated by Rebekah Beneteau, Sex and Relationship Coach, Access Consciousness BF and CFMW.

$27 USD
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DESIRE! – The Woman’s Path to Empowerment Webinar
Originally recorded live in Asheville


What would it be like to allow yourself to Desire more? What might you go after? What would knowing you deserve everything you desire do to change your life? This class is for you if you don’t know what you desire, if you do know, but you don’t feel like you deserve, or you have no idea how to get it.

You’ll learn:

  • The difference between identifying the desires of the mind vs. the desires that arise from the body
  • Why women in particular have become divorced from our desire current
  • The ill effects of unhappy women
  • The bogeymen of claiming desire
  • Discovering what will work for us (hint – it’s about what turns you on!)
  • What is required to allow us to choose for us
  • Using the tools of Access Consciousness to release limitations, shame and conditioning around our bodies, and our desires in the bedroom and beyond


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Intro to Pillowtalk
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Join us for this introductory evening that will teach you how to talk to your lover so that you and any partner can get pleased EVERY time.

Welcome to Pillow Talk – The Art of Sexual Communication
No matter how skilled a lover you are, each new partner has different desires and erogenous zones. In this introductory class, we will be discussing the different components of pleasurable touch. Join us to learn communication techniques to give and receive direction in a way that keeps the sex flowing, hot and juicy. Discover how to elicit information from a partner that will help you find the right spot and perfect stroke every time, and also how to guarantee you get touched where and how you want to be touched.
Some experiential exercises will be offered. No nudity or genital touch. No partner required, couples and singles of all orientations welcome.
We’ll be covering:
1.  What is one-way touch?
2. The four main components of sexual stroking
3. Asking for direction from a partner
4. Giving direction to a partner
5. The taking touch – their pleasure is your pleasure
6. The sensual research date
7. Time for your questions too!
Address will be sent to those who register, so sign up today, and get your sexy on!

$25 per person

Build a Better Boner
Recorded Teleseminar

Do you want longer, harder, stronger erections? How about more frequent, potent and powerful orgasms?

Join me from the privacy of your own home for a special teleclass that will help you have a better relationship with your penis, your turn-on, your self-pleasure practice, and sex with others.

During this 90 minute teleseminar you will get:

  • Information and techniques to overcome erectile dysfunction, impotence, premature ejaculation and difficulty ejaculating
  • Exercises that can increase your sensation and stamina
  • A new appreciation for and connection to your body
  • Clearings to release emotional and mental obstacles to having a satisfying sex life

A potent distance healing to increase your vitality, circulation, sexual energy and stamina, and orgasmic potential.
Cum with me, on a journey to satisfaction.

All registrations include a recording of the call, yours to keep for life.

All this for just $75. Buy now!

Cum with me, on a journey of pleasure, potency and satisfaction.

If it’s Not One Thing. . . It’s Your Mother

Recording Available

During this recorded video webinar we cleared a bunch of the STUFF we inherited from our mothers. The known stuff. The secret stuff. The things we like, and the things we hate, and everything in between.

I  used the tools of Access Consciousness® plus everything I’ve learned over two decades of personal work, 25 years of motherhood and more than five decades as a daughter.

And here’s what else you get:

  • video replay
  • a downloadable mp3 audio of the class
  • a pdf of tools and clearings
  • an mp3 audio loop of the clearings from the class

And just possibly, a new future where the legacy of your family no longer dictates your choices. Wow!

Pillow Talk – The Art of Sexual Communication Playshop

Now accepting deposits for a class in Asheville
Pay $150 now, save $25 on the final price, and help pick the date
$275 pp or three payments of $95 Bring a friend and pay $250 each

  • Do you want to know how to please every lover, every time?
  • Do you want a better self-image about ?
  • Would you like more sexual confidence?
  • Would you like to have more pleasure?

Then join us!

No matter how skilled a lover you are, each new partner has different desires and erogenous zones. In this day-long playshop, we will be exploring the different components of pleasurable touch. You will learn communication techniques to give and receive direction in a way that keeps the sex flowing, hot and juicy. Discover how to elicit information from a partner that will help you find the right spot and perfect stroke every time, and also how to guarantee you get touched where and how you want to be touched. You will learn Pleasure Hands, a technique for bringing your partner to ecstatic pleasure through manual stimulation.

This is experiential, with fun exercises, so you get a chance to practice what we’re preaching. No partner necessary. No nudity or genital contact.

Register Today!

Hear what others have to say about this life-changing course.

Kink Lab 101: An Intro & Practicum

We teach this class every couple of months when enough curious and new people are looking to get their feet wet in the lifestyle.

Curious about the world that broke into the mainstream with the novel Fifty shades of Grey?  During this evening workshop you will learn:

  • What does BDSM stand for?
  • Appetites versus identities in the kink world
  • Top/Bottom & Dom/Sub Styles of power exchange in relationship
  • Some of the favorite types of kinky play – from bondage and  impact play to service and humiliation
  • How to introduce kinky play and spice up your relationship
  • How to meet like-minded people

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Kink Lab 102: Making the Scene

You learned what you like in Kink Lab 101, how do you build that into playtime with a real person? In this demonstration and simultaneous Q an A, participants will view a real live scene from negotiation to aftercare. Afterwards, there will be time for participants to negotiate and enact a scene with support and supervision if desired.

Read more about this class!

Playing with Sexual Polarity: An Evening for Men & Women

What is masculine-feminine polarity? How can we tap into our innate power and succeed with the opposite sex? Women can learn to be more magnetic and attractive, men can learn to be more steadfast and powerful. Using the dynamics of sexual polarity brings more fun and more success into your relationships. This sex counseling course features discussion, experiential exercises as well as Q & A.

In person and via tele-seminar.
Call 828-348-4925 to schedule this evening for your group.

Joys of Oral Sex: Making Your Next Mouthful Count!

Giving a blow job is a joy to some, and a trial to others. They will give you not only some techniques that will drive him wild, but also the tips you need to make performing a blow job a pleasurable even orgasmic experience. What if giving felt as good as receiving? Want to up your pussy eating? We will dive head first into the bewildering world of the vulva. It’s not as easy as mimicking the alphabet! Every pussy is different and wonderful, a playground waiting to be explored. Discussion will include anatomy, pleasure centers and technique.

Energetics of Sex Magic

During this experiential class, we will be demonstrating the interplay of yin and yang energy within us as individuals and then creating a tantric ritual that allows participants to connect with each other energetically. Couples and singles of all orientations and identification welcome. No partner is necessary as the circles of ceremony will bring you into contact with the group in an environment of safety and no judgement, however couples may choose to remain together if they wish. Exercises will utilize gazing, touch, and breathing.

There will be sensual but no sexual contact offered.

  Navigating Relationship Changes

What do you do when one person in a partnership decides they want to try something new and the other person isn’t so sure? Changes to your relationship style or introducing new kink activities can be painful, or smooth. How do you open (or close) up a relationship to other lovers? How do you introduce new kinks? What do you do when your appetites aren’t a match? Trevor and Rebekah will give you communication tools and strategies for finding winning ways to satisfy every partner’s needs and desires.

Love What You Love: Accepting Our Sexual Selves!

In her famous poem, Wild Geese, Mary Oliver writes:

You do not have to be good. You do not have to walk on your knees
 For a hundred miles through the desert, repenting.
You only have to let the soft animal of your body
love what it loves.

In this class we will delve into the desires you have pushed down and away as being “unsuitable or not spiritual.” See how embracing your appetites can lead to self-love and self-growth. During this class we will discuss the smorgasbord of ways that people relate sexually.

Alternatives to monogamy, playing with gender orientation, using power exchange and role play and the spectrum of available pleasure sensations will be explained. You will learn that not all desire needs to be acted upon in order to be a fulfilling part of who you are and how you love. Participants will have the opportunity to play games designed to release shame, and allow desires to bubble up to consciousness.