Finding a partner, it starts with a choice
Are you living in possibility or limitations around relationships? What are the stories you are telling yourself about men, women, yourself or the world that justify being alone? I'm telling it during this new episode of my weekly vodcast. Be sure and subscribe to the...
Sexual Liberation through the Five Steps to Sexual Authenticity
Who would you be, if nobody told you you were doing sex and relationship wrong? Check out the first episode of my weekly vodcast. I'm talking about Sexual freedom as the source of your vitality and your power. Watch all the way through when you are somewhere where you...
Me Too, So What and Now What
Where Power isn't Balanced, Consent Cannot be Given I have experienced being exposed to unwelcome advances several times, including the premature introduction of sex by an adult to my young self at age 8. I recently tossed off an episode of Rebekah Rambles, where I...
Owning Self
It's 1:30 in the afternoon, and I am still in my pajamas. Not the slinky black negligee with the peek-a boo bra cups, that you all imagine I walk around in all day. At least, I hope you do {wink}. I'm styling the fleece blue ones with monkeys and snow flakes on the...
Why She Won’t Sleep with You
If you have been struggling to spark up interest from your partner, there could be lots of reasons. I go into several of them here, and what both men and women, can do about it. Watch me get all riled up!
How to Open Again to Love
Are you feeling like a failure at relationships? When my marriage to my first husband ended after ten years together, I definitely felt like I had failed at relationships. In fact, I thought my romantic life had come to an end. I was almost forty years old,...
Are you begging for love?
Am I lovable? Obviously, this is typical ground for a relationship coach to travel. My clients come to me because they want to express more of their sexuality, or they want to find a partner who is going to give them the kind of love they desire. Couples come because...
Why We Need a Consent Culture
What is Consent Culture? A He Says - She Says Post Rebekah says - Recently, I have either been the victim of, or a witness to, several "violations of consent." In case you have never heard this term, it refers to an incident of touching another person without...
How Your Brain is Ruining Your Relationships
Does Having Better Relationships Seem Impossible? Do you find that it's getting harder and harder to meet people worth dating? Or maybe you are in a relationship, but when you look over at them, the glow is gone? Are you wondering IS THISÂ IT? Am I destined for another...
Thoughts on Freedom
Land of the Free It is Memorial Day Weekend, the time when we remember those who lost their lives during military service. Floating all around social media is the meme that they died to protect our freedom. I'm not going to write about the complicated topic of the...