It’s a Brand New Day
It’s one week after The Desire Course, and what a week it has been! In the first place, a big “You Go Girl” to the women who participated in the course. Watching them come in, all shy and nervous, bond with each other over the course of two days, and then blossom...
The Desire Course 3-Pay Plan
There are lots of things that stop us from going after what we want. I call these the bogeymen of Desire. One of the top five is the fear that what we desire is frivolous and not worth the money. Today I want to answer both these objections, with some inspiration...
When women compete
I feel like I’ve written about this before , but it’s bothering me again! My teen-aged daughters watch a TV show called Bad Girls Club. I can barely stand to be in the same room with this show. It highlights all the worst stereotypes of women, competing over...
The Agony and the Ecstasy
I haven’t written much lately. I’ve been sad. My nine-year relationship (seven years married) abruptly ended this summer, gradually morphing into a friendship/business relationship. Although my mind knows that it is for the best, my emotional body has had other...
Where’s the joy?
I have a friend who was complaining that her last family vacation was challenging. They had planned the camping trip with great expectation, and then she got to the reality of child wrangling, cooking in the great outdoors, insects etc. She said in desperation,...
The dog ate my homework
Well, not exactly. She ate my book bag, destroying the hardware on the strap of my very nice, cushioned laptop carrier. You see, she wanted to go outside, and I was on “a very important conference call,” so I ignored her. Hey, at least she didn’t pee on the rug! ...
Pleasure Evolution – Desire as a Woman’s Path to Empowerment
So excited. I have been in the throes of a major business upgrade and I am having a ball! More news including a new name and a brand new website are coming soon. In the meantime, I’ve gotten more and more clear on what I love to do, and what I have to offer. I had a...
Celebrating the Goddess and the Hero
This past weekend, I was at the lovely wedding of John and my former housemate Mary. The ceremony was Quaker style, which meant that the attendees were invited to sit in silence until spirit moved someone, who would then stand up and offer a blessing to the newly...
Important Health Update
In the world of increased sensual pleasure, lube is considered one of the greatest inventions EVER. But it turns out that not all lubes are created equal. In fact, some are even hazardous to your health! Several weeks ago, I did a radio show about safety in sex...
I Can’t Talk about Sex!
A new acquaintance recently said, “Rebekah, I’m really intrigued by what you do, but I can’t talk about my sex life with a stranger.” I get it. Most of us weren’t raised in households where candid conversation about sex was the norm. Not only that, but any kind of...