The Scoop on Lube!

The Scoop on Lube!

Everything you want to know about choosing lube by Ginger and Rebekah Why Use Lube? If you engage in any kind of sex, even with yourself, you probably use lubricant of some variety or another. And if you haven’t, there’s Keeping things wetlots of reasons...
What Is Subspace?

What Is Subspace?

I’ve gotten this question from people with plenty of kink experience almost as much as from those with none. Identifying and describing subspace is a difficult, nuanced affair. It does not look or feel the same for everyone, and many claim they’ve never reached...
Polyamory Is Messy

Polyamory Is Messy

Messy is Okay by Ginger (with Rebekah whispering in!) I’ve seen a handful of romantic triads and non-monogamists represented in books, movies, fan fiction, and tv shows, and they always seem to present in one of two ways: everything comes together perfectly, or...
In Bed with Rebekah

In Bed with Rebekah

This week on In Bed with Rebekah, we interviewed… Rebekah! This Sunday, in honor of the fresh Femme Domme series starting up this Thursday, we did a special In Bed With- episode where I interviewed Rebekah about how she became a Domme, from the comfort of our...

In Bed with Ginger Z

Discovering BDSM This week on In Bed with Rebekah, I – the notorious Ginger Z – joined the conversation from my bedroom in Brooklyn. For the better part of an hour, Rebekah and I discussed trans representation in media, kink-shame, and the various delights...