Why do people like “Degrading Sex?”

Humiliation and Degrading Sex This topic has been up lately, as we recently got a message from a man who wanted to understand a desire his partner was expressing. Basically, it boiled down to “what’s up with degradation, rough sex, or rape...

How I Discovered My Calling

How Did I Get Started as a Sex Coach? T’is the season of gratitude, so I thought I would add an acknowledgment that also answers the question, how did you get started as a sex and intimacy coach? I’m grateful today to Andes Bell, who was the Dean of the...

The Body Never Lies

Are you a natural-born people pleaser?  I am. I just realized that I was traumatized by the birth of my sister when I was three years old.  suddenly, I was no longer the center of attention. Not only did this usurper come along, but we moved to a new apartment which...