How to Transform Anger in Intimate Relationships

The Dangers of Anger and Resentment Two of the biggest obstacles to good sex are anger and resentment. The difference between the two is that resentment is anger felt but not expressed. We get angry when we feel agreements have been broken, expectations disappointed,...

Skills of Better Loving – Fulfilling Needs

It’s Valentine’s Day.  The official day that Hallmark and florists make a ton of money because people become willing to share what is in their hearts. What if every day could be like Valentine’s Day? What would it take for us to be willing to express love and...

Being a Better Lover Part 4 – I Will You Good

Welcome back to the series on being a better lover.  I started with the principles of loving, and then moved on to the skills, and hopefully, you’re reading these in order, because they build upon one another. And of course, the skills are the principles put into...