I subscribe to a website that connects reporters working on stories with specialists who can give information. We’ve gotten lots of great exposure working with journalists from Salon, CafeMom, Alternet and The Stir. But a request today triggered me, and so this is a SOAPBOX ALERT!!!
The reporter wanted to know about “Sexual Experiences Everyone Should Experience.”
Here’s what I wanted to respond. There are none. Keep reading to see what I want the article to say. . .
There is absolutely no activity that everyone MUST try before they die. This is just another excuse to make a sensationalized top ten list about threesomes, and kink, all the while making people feel badly about what they are supposedly missing out on. So, stop “shoulding” on yourself. This whole idea is anathema to the idea of Sexual Authenticity™ that Pleasure Evolution stands for. One person’s yum is another persons yuck. What’s most important is that you feel free to be You.
Here’s my version of what the article could say, that would be genuinely helpful in creating confident, self-expressed individuals.
Pleasure is healing. You don’t need a partner to have a great and active sensual life. Don’t worry about what you should do, and start living the life you WANT!
Got any to add to the list? Let us know in the comments below.
I want to get my wife some sexy stockings and I am guessing fishnet stockings. Are these ok for general work wear or should they be worn solely in the bedroom?
That would depend totally on her job and what is appropriate for her to wear there.
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