Recurring Events, One-time Gatherings and Parties

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Being Social – An Evening of Fun, Love and Transformation

“Being Socials” are a fun way to meet new people, and get to know your friends even better. The invitation is to show up and BE, whoever you are and however you feel, because we set a tone of total acceptance. Like a party, but with structure, the communication games we play give you an opportunity to give and receive attention, and create surprising intimacy. From candid and hilarious, to deep and touching, each Being Social follows the same structure but is created by the people who are there. Come and play with us.

(Newcomers must arrive on time: doors close at quarter past)

Special Clothing Optional Being Social
Brooklyn, NY 11201

Monday, April 15th, 7 – 10 PM
Location: sent to paid registrants
Leader: Rebekah
Cost:  $12 in advance
Refreshments welcomed for our break

Asheville, NC
Tuesday, April 9th, 7 – 10 PM
Location: Earthfare South
1856 Hendersonville Road
Leaders: Rose and Maxim
Cost: $10.50 in advance (click here) $12 at the door

Please look for the Registration Fairy out front to check in. Only food bought in the store will be allowed in the community room

We will be at this location every month on the Second Tuesday 7 – 10 PM

May 14th , 2019 Rebekah Returns!
Location: Earthfare South
1856 Hendersonville Road
Leaders: Rebekah  and Maxim
Cost: $10.50 in advance (click here) $12 at the door

Please look for the Registration Fairy out front to check in. Only food bought in the store will be allowed in the community room

Play Parties

Being of Sexualness – an Authenticity Play Party
Brooklyn, NY
Sunday, April 21st, 2019

Facilitated by Rebekah Beneteau
Cost $40 to $60
Pre-registration required on Eventbrite

  • What if who You were extended way beyond your body?
  • What if it was possible to know things beyond what your five senses tell you?
  • What would sexuality look like as an Infinite Being?
  • What if you could engage with people from a place of possibility rather than judgment?

Join us for an exploration of relating intimately, sensually and emotionally in ways beyond your current reality. Our opening circle and icebreaker games will focus on moving beyond our judgments of self and others and into a space of creation and invitation. Sexualness is beyond getting touched. Beyond getting off. After the circle, we will open into a free play environment. Please bring a blindfold or dark scarf.
Individuals, Couples, and polycules of all Genders and Orientations Welcome. Get Answers to Frequently Asked Questions below.

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Being Intimacy – an Authentic Sexuality Play Party
Asheville Area
April 27th, 20119
5 to 10 pm

Facilitated by Rebekah Beneteau

Cost: $30 – $45 Early Bird Pricing available until April 1st
Pre-registration required on eventbrite, click Here

  • Who would You love, and how would you love them, if no one told you how it “should be done”?
  • What if intimacy wasn’t something you sought from others, but an energy of invitation?
  • Do you wish you knew more like-minded souls to accompany you on your explorations into Sexual Authenticity?
  • Who would you be and how would you play if you gave yourself full permission to have your desires?

Join us for an evening of fun and exploration as we experiment with what it means to see and be seen, to touch and be touched. And as always, watching is participation. Individuals, couples, and polycules of all orientations and genders welcome.

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What to expect at our play parties

Opening Circle: Connection, Consent and Embodiment
During the opening Circle we will build a container of community. The icebreaker games will give you the tools to connect with others in ways you may never have experienced. you will be encouraged to find your own voice to make requests and offers. And you will learn the language of consent and safe sex inquiries. When you are able to experience the free flow of your sexuality, you can open yourself to all of your creativity, emotions and vitality.

Amp up your own sexual energy and enjoy that flow as you interact with others. Dance in the exchange of eros at this evening of sacred community and safe, playful experiential exercises. This is an opportunity to expand your ideas of intimate connection and what counts as SEX. The most important rule of the evening is “don’t do anything you don’t want to do.” Consent and boundaries are all-important and we will help you find yours. Come feel your body’s joy and your heart’s longings.

After the opening circle games, we open up to Play!
This is a place where all parts of you are welcome: your hunger, your fear, your vulnerability and your power. A place where you are encouraged to give voice to your desires, to be seen and to see others. Magically, a room full of strangers will become a sacred community. Can you imagine tasting another’s soul?

Playtime is devoted to the Tantric concept “Everything is an Experiment.” What have you always wanted to experience? How much pleasure will you allow yourself? That might look like sharing a sensual experience with your committed partner in a space where other people are also playing. You might explore relating to someone of the same sex, or multiple partners. You might want to be in the energy of the erotic, and stay within your own energy field. No activity is expected or required, and anything safe and consensual is allowed. In fact, to watch is also to participate. There will be dungeon equipment, massage tables, erotic and snuggle zones available

Light refreshments will be served, and please feel free to bring fun contributions for the snack table.

THIS IS A DRUG AND ALCOHOL FREE EVENT. Be here when you’re here.

This is a sex positive, sex permissive event. Come cuddle. Come kiss. Come dance in the flow of Eros and revel in exploring your Authentic Sexuality.


Think about this before you register. Do you take responsibility for yourself and your experiences? Are you somebody who knows your own wants and boundaries and can communicate them clearly…… and/or you’re willing to work and explore these areas for your own growth and enjoyment? Do you treat yourself and others with respect and kindness? Are you open and allowing of how other people express their gender, and sexuality? Are you willing to let go of your expectations and demands and be present to what IS with an open heart?

Be prompt. We will lock the doors to late arrivals in order to set a safe container. Leave whenever you like. Closing circle will take place 30 min before end of event.

If you’re reading this, thinking, “I would love to come, but I’m not sure I want to participate,” PLEASE COME and enjoy the pressure-free company of like-minded individuals and leave whenever you feel full. Really. There will be no requirement for you to do anything you don’t want to do. We will go over party etiquette at the start, and watching is a totally acceptable way to play.

Dress code is street clothes to the door. Once inside you can change into comfort, your sexiest attire, or nothing at all.

These events are an opportunity to treat all life as an experiment. Since our cardinal rule is don’t do anything you don’t want to do, YOU set the stage. You are invited to dance in the space of eros, where sensuality and sexuality can be freely expressed without judgment. You can play with one or many. We will create a space that is safe, stimulating, conscious, and nurturing, and you are encouraged to explore yourself, your desires, and your limits by yourself and with others. And most of all, to HAVE FUN.

Refund Policy:

Cancellations at least 48 hours BEFORE the event will be refunded by request, minus a $5 administrative fee. Cancellations within 48 hours of the event will not receive a refund but may be applied to a future event at the discretion of Pleasure Evolution. Late arrivals will be considered canceled tickets sales. No admittance after 5:15 pm without prior approval.

Liability Policy:

Attendees are fully liable for their own actions. Nudity and sexual content are to be expected at this event. Ticket holders agree to not hold responsible Pleasure Evolution, its affiliates or associates for any and all injuries that may occur during activities at this event up to, including but not limited to physical, emotional, mental, spiritual or psychological. By attending this event, ticket holders acknowledge the risks of engaging in sexual and spiritual activities and will conduct themselves accordingly. Any and all behavior that Pleasure Evolution or its affiliates deem unsafe, unsavory or detrimental to the well being of those attending can and will result in immediate expulsion from the event.

Curious about what happens at these sensually adventurous events? Read our blog post HERE 

Kinky Over 50

Friday, May 18, 2018
7:00 – 9:30 pm
Location to be announced
$20 in advance/$25 at the door
pre-register HERE

Part meet and greet, part workshop, this evening is for kinksters over 50 and the people who love them. Through structured ice breaker games and discussion we will explore the joys and trials of being the age we are in the alternative lifestyle community.

  • How do you meet people whose appetites match yours?
  • When do you tell people you just met through online dating what your kink is?
  • What baggage are you carrying about your age that if you let go of it would help you enjoy your love and sex life more?

Whether you are a seasoned player looking for new friends or a newbie exploring, join us for fun and fellowship. There will be light refreshments and non-alcoholic beverages served, and time for informal socializing.

$20 in advance and $25 at the door
Pre-register HERE:
Facilitated by Rebekah Beneteau

Refund Policy
Refunds available if requested 24 hours before the event

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