Recurring Events, One-time Gatherings and Parties

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Being Social – An Evening of Fun, Love and Transformation

“Being Socials” are a fun way to meet new people, and get to know your friends even better. The invitation is to show up and BE, whoever you are and however you feel, because we set a tone of total acceptance. Like a party, but with structure, the communication games we play give you an opportunity to give and receive attention, and create surprising intimacy. From candid and hilarious, to deep and touching, each Being Social follows the same structure but is created by the people who are there. Come and play with us.

(Newcomers must arrive on time: doors close at quarter past the hour)

Saturday, August 25th 7-10 pm
Location: Saluda
Leaders: Michael and Cassie
Cost: $10

Please RSVP to get the address  HERE

Play Parties

Authentic Sexuality Play Party
Asheville – Saturday, August 18th
5 to 10 pm Click the link above for more info

Facilitated by Rebekah Beneteau

Cost: $35 – $50 Early Bird Pricing available in Asheville until August 1
Pre-registration required on eventbrite, click the links above for your city

  • Are you longing for more joy and fulfillment in your sensual life?
  • Do you wish you knew more like-minded souls to accompany you on your explorations into Sexual Authenticity?
  • Who would you be and how would you play if you gave yourself full permission to have your desires?

Join us for an evening of fun, exploration and dive into the full spectrum of sensual pleasures! Come on a journey to a space where mono, poly, Tantra, BDSM, ecstasy and intimacy intersect.

Opening Circle: Connection, Consent and Embodiment

During the opening Circle we will build a container of community. You’ll be facilitated through exercises that will build connection to your own body and senses, and then to others in the circle. You’ll learn new ways to tap into your desires and give them voice. When you are able to experience the free flow of your sexuality, you can open yourself to all of your creativity, emotions and vitality. Join us to experience how you can amplify your own sexual energy and enjoy that flow as you interact with others. Dance in the exchange of eros at this evening of sacred community and safe, playful experiential exercises. This is an opportunity to expand your ideas of intimate connection and what counts as SEX. The most important rule of the evening is “don’t do anything you don’t want to do.” Consent and boundaries are all-important and we will help you find yours. Come feel your body’s joy and your heart’s longings.

After the opening circle games, we open up to Play!
This is a place where all parts of you are welcome: your hunger, your fear, your vulnerability and your power. A place where you are encouraged to give voice to your desires, to be seen and to see others. Magically, a room full of strangers will become a sacred community. Can you imagine tasting another’s soul?

Playtime is devoted to the Tantric concept “Everything is an Experiment.” What have you always wanted to experience? How much pleasure will you allow yourself? That might look like sharing a sensual experience with your committed partner in a space where other people are also playing. You might explore relating to someone of the same sex, or multiple partners. You might want to be in the energy of the erotic, and stay within your own energy field. No activity is expected or required, and anything safe and consensual is allowed. In fact, to watch is also to participate. There will be dungeon equipment, massage tables, erotic and snuggle zones available

Light refreshments will be served, and please feel free to bring fun contributions for the snack table.

THIS IS A DRUG AND ALCOHOL FREE EVENT. Be here when you’re here.

This is a sex positive, sex permissive event. Come cuddle. Come kiss. Come dance in the flow of Eros and revel in exploring your Authentic Sexuality.


Think about this before you register. Do you take responsibility for yourself and your experiences? Are you somebody who knows your own wants and boundaries and can communicate them clearly…… and/or you’re willing to work and explore these areas for your own growth and enjoyment? Do you treat yourself and others with respect and kindness? Are you open and allowing of how other people express their gender, and sexuality? Are you willing to let go of your expectations and demands and be present to what IS with an open heart?

Be prompt. We will lock the doors to late arrivals in order to set a safe container. Leave whenever you like. Closing circle will take place 30 min before end of event.


Please bring any items you might need, including nesting items, pillows, condoms, dental dams, gloves, lube, toys, a towel to protect your play space and hand towels for cleaning up. We will have some available, but more in this case is better. 🙂

If you’re reading this, thinking, “I would love to come, but I’m not sure I want to participate,” PLEASE COME and enjoy the pressure-free company of like-minded individuals and leave whenever you feel full. Really. There will be no pressure for you to do anything you don’t want to do. We will go over party etiquette at the start, and watching is a totally acceptable way to play.

Dress code is street clothes to the door. Once inside you can change into comfort, your sexiest attire, or nothing at all.

This party is an opportunity to treat all life as an experiment. Since our cardinal rule is

-Don’t do anything you don’t want to do!-

YOU set the stage. You are invited to dance in the space of eros, where sensuality and sexuality can be freely expressed without judgment. You can play with one or many. You can watch, because looking is participation too! We will create a space that is safe, stimulating, conscious, and nurturing, and you are encouraged to explore yourself, your desires, and your limits by yourself and with others. And most of all, to HAVE FUN.

Refund Policy:
Cancellations at least 48 hours BEFORE the event will be refunded by request, minus a $5 administrative fee. Cancellations within 48 hours of the event will not receive a refund but may be applied to a future event at the discretion of Pleasure Evolution. Late arrivals will be considered canceled tickets sales. No admittance after 6:15pm.

Liability Policy:
Attendees are fully liable for their own actions. Nudity and sexual content are to be expected at this event. Ticket holders agree to not hold responsible Pleasure Evolution, its affiliates or associates for any and all injuries that may occur during activities at this event up to, including but not limited to physical, emotional, mental, spiritual or psychological. By attending this event, ticket holders acknowledge the risks to engaging in sexual and spiritual activities and will conduct themselves accordingly. Any and all behavior that Pleasure Evolution or its affiliates deem unsafe, unsavory or detrimental to the well being of those attending can and will result in immediate expulsion from the event.

Curious about what happens at these sensually adventurous events? Read our blog post HERE

Claim your spot HERE

Kinky Over 50

Friday, May 18, 2018
7:00 – 9:30 pm
Location to be announced
$20 in advance/$25 at the door
pre-register HERE


Part meet and greet, part workshop, this evening is for kinksters over 50 and the people who love them. Through structured ice breaker games and discussion we will explore the joys and trials of being the age we are in the alternative lifestyle community.

  • How do you meet people whose appetites match yours?
  • When do you tell people you just met through online dating what your kink is?
  • What baggage are you carrying about your age that if you let go of it would help you enjoy your love and sex life more?

Whether you are a seasoned player looking for new friends or a newbie exploring, join us for fun and fellowship. There will be light refreshments and non-alcoholic beverages served, and time for informal socializing.

$20 in advance and $25 at the door
Pre-register HERE:
Facilitated by Rebekah Beneteau

Refund Policy
Refunds available if requested 24 hours before the event



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