Lighting Your Fire

The conditioning we have received as female-bodied individuals has left many of us with poor body-image and a distorted connection to our own pleasure. Perhaps you have experienced trauma that makes it difficult to feel sexually free. Simultaneously, the messages (and hormones) drive us to mate.

Through sex coaching, energy healing, and erotic body mapping with me you can find yourself, learn to ask for what you want, and create the intimacy that you long for with yourself and partners.

I work with you body, mind and soul to free you from obstacles and conditioning, heal sexual trauma, and empower you to pursue a healthy and satisfying relationship to your sexuality and anyone you choose to share that with. Sessions may include talk, ritual, energy healing, and Sacred Intimacy*

*Sacred Intimacy only available in Asheville or by appointment when I travel in New York, Philadelphia and Washington DC.

By coaching with me you can:

  • Releasing obsolete conditioning that prevents you from embodying your sexuality
  • Learn new ways of communicating with men
  • Examine your beliefs about the opposite sex in general, your particular man and what it means to be in a relationship
  • Learn about the male psyche and how to understand how he thinks
  • Identify the needs and desires you have for your sex life.
  • Discover inner obstacles to having a gratifying love life, and move through them
  • Releasing and recovering from past sexual trama
  • Get new skills and techniques  for relating to your partner in a way that gets both of your needs, including sexual desires, met,
  • Learn how to ask for what you want from a man and feel truly empowered
  • How to seduce a man into fun
  • What to do about libido imbalance
  • Cultivate your own surrender to pleasure in your relationship
  • How to embody the female quality of radiance
  • Managing your anger
  • Cultivating arousal
  • Explanations and training in successfully navigating polyamory, meeting new romantic and sexual partners
  • Exploration and Training in BDSM techniques if desired
  • Sacred Intimacy and Erotic Body Mapping to help you connect to your body

I work over webcam, as well as in person in my Asheville office.
I have found that at least six sessions are optimal for making progress. To help you make that commitment to yourself and me, The sixpack is discounted by 10% over single session pricing.

You can also come for an entire year of unlimited support! As many 50 minute or half hour sessions as you like for twelve months.

Single Sessions for healing or coaching via webcam or in person - $200 per 50 minute session




Single 50 minute Session for BDSM training or Sacred Intimacy - $250




Coaching/Healing Six Pack ( a 10% savings over single sessions) - $1080




SI Six Pack (a 10% discount over single session investment - $1350




Rebekah Unlimited – six months of up to 1 50-minute session per week -$2500