Sex in Poly Relationships

Polyamory Conversations During our recent trip to Frolicon 2015 in Atlanta, Trevor and I attended a panel called Polyamory 202, in which the presenter outlined some of the issues that crop in “long-term” poly relationships. Although she had good things to...

The Benefits of BDSM: Part II

In my last posting I described some of the benefits of BDSM as a part of your sexual bag of tricks. In this article, I’d like to specifically address the advantages of seeking a professional, experienced coach in your journey to sexual awakening. Primarily, the...

Benefits of BDSM: Part I

BDSM (Bondage/Dominance/Sadism/Masochism) isn’t for everyone, but if you’re reading this article, odds are you’re curious or have already dabbled in it.  Most people have a tendency towards either dominant or submissive appetites. Rather than spend half the article on...

How to Transform Anger in Intimate Relationships

The Dangers of Anger and Resentment Two of the biggest obstacles to good sex are anger and resentment. The difference between the two is that resentment is anger felt but not expressed. We get angry when we feel agreements have been broken, expectations disappointed,...