Happy Anniversary to Us!

How it began It was a year ago today that I had my first date with Trevor. It was not your typical dinner and a movie or tea at Dobra kind of date, and knowing us, you wouldn’t have expected it to be. We had been friends for a little under two months, and on...

Play Party Magic

On Sept 12th, the Embodied Sensuality Playshop and Authentic Sexuality Play Party was one of the most gratifying and thankful groups we’ve had yet. Part of the wonderful magic that happens at Play Parties is the forming of tribe or community. We shared a heart space...

Another Full Moon

Another full moon, another sleepless night.  Even as a child, I had trouble sleeping on a full moon.  I know it’s a cliché, and many pagan and wiccans will claim a strong connection to the lunar cycle.  I used to lie awake and read books by the light of the full moon....

Letting Go and Becoming Someone New

It was almost exactly two years ago. . . that I moved to Asheville, NC. We knew only two people who lived here, one of my ex-lovers and my business coach. I arrived with my husband Marc, my two daughters, Ariana and Mariah, and my puppy, Pandora. The marriage...

Man Talk

Are two people having sex, or is one person f*****g the other? Let me start by saying I grew up in what seemed to be a pretty normal southern American environment, which is to say it was racist, homophobic, unenlightened and violent. Despite my best attempts it...