Your Sexuality is Your Birthright

Why I Do What I do The year is coming to a close, and it has been an incredible time of growth and empowerment. In 2014, I intend to come out ever more fully, and to attract and serve the people who really want and need what I do.  To that end, what you are about to...

Special K is NOT special

While watching the Disney Christmas Parade (I admit it, I’m a sucker for Neil Patrick Harris), I saw a Special K commercial.  It starts with images of a baby being weighed in the delivery room, a child being measured for height, and several adults on scales. ...

What My True Love Should Give to Me

Christmas music is blaring from every store’s speakers and most of my radio stations.  Which started me thinking about that 12 Days of Christmas song. 12 Drummers Drumming? Cows, and a menagerie of birds?  What a racket,  not to mention the cleaning up afterwards.  So...

Happy for No Reason

I was going to leave it go this week. Just blame it on the holidays, and give the newsletter a break.  Everyone is writing about gratitude anyway, so I don’t have to.  And then I discovered the idea at the right, in the book A Happy Pocket Full of Money, by David...

Less Worry, Better Sex

  My article today is about caring for our parents.  Or caring for ourselves as we age. You may be asking, “What does that have to do with pleasure and sensuality?” Essential to surrendering into your pleasure is peace of mind.  Can you have great sex when you...

Music to Get Your Sexy On

Last night, I went to hear some wonderful musicians playing samba at 5 Walnut, here in Asheville.  If you are not familiar with samba, it is wonderful to dance to, and very fun to make out to.  Here is a little clip of The Juan Benavides Trio in...