Head, Heart and Hard-on

Talking and Relating to Men Oh, those Men. Our partners try to understand us, as we grapple to understand ourselves. Even when we think we have it all handled, someone comes along  and finds there are motivations deeper than we thought. In my 43 years of studying...

A Word about Men’s Underwear

You Never Get a Second Chance to Make a First Impression! Today’s writing is purely opinionated and I offer a trigger warning, specifically to the very men this post addresses.  In my time with Pleasure Evolution, I’ve had the opportunity to...

Another Full Moon

Another full moon, another sleepless night.  Even as a child, I had trouble sleeping on a full moon.  I know it’s a cliché, and many pagan and wiccans will claim a strong connection to the lunar cycle.  I used to lie awake and read books by the light of the full moon....

Man Talk

Are two people having sex, or is one person f*****g the other? Let me start by saying I grew up in what seemed to be a pretty normal southern American environment, which is to say it was racist, homophobic, unenlightened and violent. Despite my best attempts it...

Permission to Be Naked

I spent this weekend celebrating the summer Solstice on a beautiful property outside Asheville. To those that find their spirituality in connection to nature, the equinoxes and solstices have special significance. We gathered around a fire On Saturday night and...