Why do people like “Degrading Sex?”

Humiliation and Degrading Sex This topic has been up lately, as we recently got a message from a man who wanted to understand a desire his partner was expressing. Basically, it boiled down to “what’s up with degradation, rough sex, or rape...

The Benefits of BDSM: Part II

In my last posting I described some of the benefits of BDSM as a part of your sexual bag of tricks. In this article, I’d like to specifically address the advantages of seeking a professional, experienced coach in your journey to sexual awakening. Primarily, the...

Benefits of BDSM: Part I

BDSM (Bondage/Dominance/Sadism/Masochism) isn’t for everyone, but if you’re reading this article, odds are you’re curious or have already dabbled in it.  Most people have a tendency towards either dominant or submissive appetites. Rather than spend half the article on...

Erotica (NSW) – Read at Your Own Risk

It’s hump day Wednesday, and I thought I’d share a little erotic fiction to spice up your week. Submit to the Queen by WiseWild I was standing around the dungeon talking to friends, when he noticed the riding crop stuck in my hand. “That looks...

50 Shades and the Rest of Us

 One night at a party, someone I had just met made a comment I hear a lot.  Inevitably, when people hear I am a sex and pleasure coach, they say something like “Oh, you must love Fifty Shades of Grey.” Well, no actually, I think it’s poorly written and a gross...