How to Open Again to Love

How to Open Again to Love

Are you feeling like a failure at relationships? When my marriage to my first husband ended after ten years together, I definitely felt like I had failed at relationships. In fact, I thought my romantic life had come to an end. I was almost forty years old,...
Are you begging for love?

Are you begging for love?

Am I lovable? Obviously, this is typical ground for a relationship coach to travel. My clients come to me because they want to express more of their sexuality, or they want to find a partner who is going to give them the kind of love they desire. Couples come because...
How Your Brain is Ruining Your Relationships

How Your Brain is Ruining Your Relationships

Does Having Better Relationships Seem Impossible? Do you find that it’s getting harder and harder to meet people worth dating? Or maybe you are in a relationship, but when you look over at them, the glow is gone? Are you wondering IS THIS IT? Am I destined for...

Thoughts on Freedom

Land of the Free It is Memorial Day Weekend, the time when we remember those who lost their lives during military service. Floating all around social media is the meme that they died to protect our freedom. I’m not going to write about the complicated topic of...

A New Kind of Water Sport

It’s National Masturbation Month – Let’s Self-Pleasure So we are bringing you a video from the vault, back when Pleasure Evolution was mostly serving women, under the banner of WiseWild Feminine. Check out these tips for making the most of your tub....

Poly or Mono?

People ask us whether we push the “poly agenda” or the “mono agenda” The answer is neither. We firmly believe that your relationship should be a conscious series of decisions rather than defaulting to the majority. People are very...

The Profound Message of Sausage Party

A Review of the Movie Sausage Party (spoiler alert) Yeah, you read that right. Some (the more genteel among you) are probably wondering what the heck is Sausage Party? It’s an animated film released in 2016, voiced by a bunch of celebrities including Seth Rogen,...

Partners in Paradise Live

We have been back almost a month from the fabulous Partners in Paradise trip, our couple’s retreat. We thought you might enjoy this video journal of our time in Costa Rica. If you are a couple wanting to increase the emotional and physical intimacy of your...

Why do people like “Degrading Sex?”

Humiliation and Degrading Sex This topic has been up lately, as we recently got a message from a man who wanted to understand a desire his partner was expressing. Basically, it boiled down to “what’s up with degradation, rough sex, or rape...